Five fun (and free!) resources for your reinvention

The best thing about the world wide web is that it gives us unlimited access to all kinds of information.  And though much of that data is free, not all of it is useful!  So here’s my latest short list of worthwhile resources you can use, almost all of them gratis, to help you move forward in key areas of your reinvention:

  • StickK is a website that helps to set goals and hold yourself accountable for achieving them.  You choose from a list of goal categories (career is one of them), and set whether it’s a one-time or ongoing commitment. To hold yourself accountable you can “put your money where your mouth is” and assign dollar stakes for your goal.  You can also assign a “Referee” to report to each week, and get your friends involved to support you. Cost: Free!
  • Strong Life Test for Women is based on the latest book by researcher Markus Buckingham of Now Discover Your Strengths. This quick quiz uncovers insights into the “role you were born to play.”  Though I haven’t read (and therefore can’t recommend) his new book Find Your Strongest Life, I found this quiz to be spot on in its pinpointing my “type.”  The downside to my pattern provided an “ouch” of recognition, and its recommendation for my smartest career move– though VERY general– was also on point.  Cost: Free!
  • The Keirsey Temperament Sorter is for both men and women (unlike the Strong Life Test), and is basically a short-form version of the famous Myers-Briggs profiles (if you are familiar with MBTI, this quiz gives you the middle two letters).  When you get to the landing page after taking your quiz, you’ll see there are a bunch of paid options.  Be sure to click the ‘mini-quiz’ option to see your free results.  Bonus- the quiz is offered in multiple languages. Cost: Free!
  • O-Net Online is the U.S. Dept of Labor’s online occupational database.  It contains a wealth of information about nearly a thousand occupations– and not just the boring bits!  Beyond a detailed task list, you’ll learn the skills, abilities and training you need (hello, Law 5), and what kind of work styles and values are essential for success in the job.  There’s even a designation for “Bright Outlook” jobs, so you’ll know which occupations are expected to be in demand over the next ten years.  A word of advice- though you can search by regular keyword, you’ll get a much more precise result if you use the O-Net Standard Occupational Classification (SOC) code.  Go here to see the SOC list.  Cost: Free!
  • The Live Happy iPhone app is a positive psychology app developed in conjunction with one of the leaders of the movement, Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky. Based on the set of activities outlined in her book (The How of Happiness, which I have read and can recommend) that have been scientifically proven to help people become happier, the app learns about you, your personality and preferences, and recommends happiness-building activities (e.g. sending gratitude notes) you can do right from your iPhone.  Cost: Nearly free! (99 cents)

August 24th, 2010


Is Your Gut Instinct Lying? Four Ways to Tell.

True and falseReinvention Law #2 (from The 10 Laws of Career Reinvention) says that when it comes to career reinvention, your body is your best guide.  And it is true that when it comes to deciding what you want to do, your body often sends the most accurate signals.  But what is also true is that all good decision-making requires an ever-shifting balance of intellectual and instinctual input.  When it comes to career reinvention, you use your intellect to answer the “how” and your instinct to answer the “what.”   But your gut isn’t infallible; it can be prone to bias because it draws upon your previous experiences—good, and not-so-good—to make a judgment call.  The trick is to know when to trust it.

The June 2010 issue of the McKinsey Quarterly contains an article about how to test your decision-making instincts.  Though the piece discusses the issue from the perspective of corporate leaders, their recommendations can also help you when making personal decisions.  Here are their four tests to know when you should trust your gut instincts, along with my analysis of how to use each one for your own career reinvention:

Test #1:  The familiarity test. In this test, you must ask yourself how often you have experienced identical or similar situations.  Familiarity is important because your subconscious relies on pattern recognition.  You need to have enough data to support a pattern, and to ensure that the previous experience referenced by your subconscious is correct!  The way you can judge this is by examining the “primary uncertainties” of a situation, and evaluating if you have enough experience to make an informed judgment call.  In career reinvention, the big question is often whether or not a career will be a good fit.  Perhaps your gut instinct is guiding you to become a coach.  If that intuition is based upon your years of informally coaching your friends, you probably have enough data.  If it’s based upon having a friend who’s a coach and loves it, you probably don’t.

Test #2:  The feedback test. Here, you want to make sure that your takeaways from your previous experiences are, in fact, correct.  As humans, our bias is to tag our decisions as good judgment, whether or not an independent assessment would support that.  I quit my first job on Wall Street because I was desperately unhappy.  At the time I thought it was a good decision—and it did, in the end, work out—but today I realize that it wasn’t so great (I was two months away from qualifying for a pension).  To run this test, have a conversation with a friend or colleague.  Tell them the experience your gut feelings are based on, and ask them for their honest feedback.

Test #3:  The measured-emotions test. Sometimes, your previous experiences are associated with highly charged emotions.  When that happens, you run the risk of making an unbalanced decision.  I had a client who was carrying baggage from a difficult experience with a former boss.  When her new boss once made a similar comment, her gut instinct told her she had run across another boss-zilla.  When you find yourself in these types of situations, you need help evaluating your emotions.  Ask yourself if you are overreacting, or speak to an objective friend about your feelings.

Test #4:  The independence test. Sometimes you have a personal interest in a particular outcome, and that bias will influence your gut feelings.  I see this often; aspiring Reinventors frequently fall in love with a particular company, and swear their instincts are leading them in that direction.  But many times the attachment is based upon other variables like an easier commute or friends who work at the firm.  If you find your gut irresistibly draws you to a single target, turn to a Native to test your assumptions and get a balanced viewpoint.

The McKinsey article cautions that if a situation fails even one of the four tests, you must strengthen your decision-making process to minimize the risk of a negative outcome.  If you find yourself in this situation, turn to friends or an informal advisory board for help vetting your career reinvention decision.

June 9th, 2010


Q&A: How to reinvent yourself when you hate your job.

We are reviving our “Ask the Reinvention Coach®” feature, where I will periodically answer questions from readers!  Read below for tips for moving forward when you feel unhappy and stuck in your job.

Q: Here’s my situation: I’m a 45 year old male.  Good paying job in a small computer company.  Thought of very highly at the company by the owner.  But I dread work pretty much every day.

I bought Pamela’s book but I am sort of stuck.  I don’t know what my ideal job even is to pursue.  I am also concerned if I had to take a major pay cut too.  I would prefer not to be miserable everyday going to work.

Recommendations?  Thoughts?

Signed, Sick of Software

A: I feel your pain.  Many people find themselves.  Many people find themselves in this situation; they believed that having a good job at a stable company was an automatic recipe for job satisfaction.  But you are living proof that this is a fairy tale.

No doubt the voices in your head (and maybe those in your world) say you should be happy for what you’ve got.  I agree that it is important to be grateful, not to create guilt but to encourage you to value your job as an asset you have at your disposal to launch your reinvention.

From your note, I notice two main traps of reinvention that are keeping you stuck:

  1. Looking for an “ideal” job. One of the biggest points of my book, The 10 Laws of Career Reinvention, is that there are no ideal jobs.  There are downsides to every career, even if you love the work.  To get what you want, job-wise, you have to give.  This means that to find work that both excites you and satisfies most of your lifestyle needs, you will have to accept some tradeoffs.
  2. Worrying about issues that may not be real. You are concerned about having to take a major pay cut, without knowing what you want to do next.  This is like worrying that your flight will crash before you’ve even made a reservation, much less bought the ticket.  Until you have targeted a new career and begun researching it, you cannot know whether or not lower pay is one of its tradeoffs.  (By the way, a TRI study back in 2006 showed that 25% of successful reinventors made more money in their new career).  Inventing barriers without actual data is a form of excuse-making, and as Law 3 says: Progress begins when you stop making excuses.

To move forward, you must shift your attention from what’s making you unhappy to what makes you happy.  I am certain that there are things about your current position that you enjoy or that work for you; write them down.  Do the brainstorming exercises in the book, especially the ones focusing on flow activities and inexhaustible interests.  If you need more help, there are a number of in-depth exercises in our new Brainstorming Your Reinvention Idea eKit to guide you.

Once you have a few workable ideas for what you would like to do next, see how your job can help you move towards your goal.  At the very least it will provide funding (aka ‘paycheck’) as you explore, but it could also provide a whole host of valuable assets for reinvention (contacts, opportunity to work on new projects and develop new skills, tuition reimbursement, etc.).  You may well find that what you hate ends up being a useful launching pad to what you love!

May 11th, 2010